"The symbolism behind the marker is of great importance to the members of the DAR. As noted on the New Jersey DAR website, "The official NJDAR insignia was adopted on May 26, 1891. The golden wheel represents a spinning wheel, the staff represents flax, the blue rim and the distaff carry the colors of the society, and the stars represent the original 13 colonies."(3) To members of the DAR, having that marker on or near their gravestone is a reminder of the sacrifices made..."